Suggestion: Memorialize Facebook Friends Who Have Passed Away
Facebook is re-explaining a little-known feature that helps friends and loved ones celebrate the lives of users who have passed away. The company has been taking requests to “memorialize” deceased users profiles for some time. But in the redesign it rolled out last Friday, there’s a new “Suggestions” feature that shows you friends who are not active on the site. It asks users to somehow interact with them, doing things like recommending other friends to them, or writing on their wall.
This feature has apparently been making for some awkward moments if you’re friends with someone on Facebook who has passed away, as All Facebook notes.
So the company is reminding users to make sure to tell Facebook if a friend has passed on in order to keep their information out of Suggestions. That form is here. More about the “memorialized” feature, from a company blog post today:
When an account is memorialized, we also set privacy so that only confirmed friends can see the profile or locate it in search. We try to protect the deceased’s privacy by removing sensitive information such as contact information and status updates. Memorializing an account also prevents anyone from logging into it in the future, while still enabling friends and family to leave posts on the profile Wall in remembrance.
Generally, this is a graceful way to handle a painful and socially complex circumstance — something Facebook itself became familiar with early in its company history. The author of today’s blog post, Max Kelly, describes how a close friend at the company was killed just a few weeks after joining.
The “memorialized” feature, which even we hadn’t noticed until today, is not the first move Facebook has made to recognize the tragic situations that its users have found themselves in. It introduced a “widowed” relationship status feature just a couple of months ago, for people who have lost spouses.













October 26th, 2009 at 9:34 am
Hey Eric,
This feature isn’t new. The article was simply a reminder of the form. It has been around for months if not over ayear.
October 26th, 2009 at 10:19 am
this is a very good feature – I have many friends who have passed and having this would have been very helpful in the grieving process for many.
October 26th, 2009 at 10:28 am
Over the past few months Facebook has been mixing in posts about existing features and answers to commonly asked questions with feature announcements. So you’ll probably continue to see posts about things that aren’t new, but aren’t widely known.
October 26th, 2009 at 10:37 am
Thanks, Nick. +1
Hey, Tom! We like to think we know all the little-known stuff, but not in this instance :(
October 26th, 2009 at 12:45 pm
[...] However, not all of Facebook’s new suggestions have gone over smoothly. Some users have complained that Facebook has suggested it “reconnect” with Facebook friends who have passed away. That’s a difficult problem for Facebook to solve, but it is working on ways to memorialize these people’s profiles. [...]